Explicit Content: A letter from a Desperate Girlfriend

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Hi Jakes,

I am struggling to write this letter to you because I am in a state of ambivalence. I wish I had the strength to meet you face to face to tell you these words but I am too enfeebled at the moment. My pillows are soaked with tears. I have had sleepless nights for some time now. I have been crying all night long and I feel very weak as write this. 
Jakes, we really need to set things right. Hidden behind the veil of 'love', we’ve been living in sin for too long. Although we both know it’s not right, you always have a way of convincing me that we are good. We have been together for almost three years but you know as much as I do that this relationship is wrong. I have aborted three times for you, Jakes, and I feel sick because of our sins. I battle with guilt and insecurity because my hands are covered with three innocent blood at age 24. I know you may not understand how I feel. 

Yes, I remember we agreed on ‘no condom no sex’ after my third abortion, but Jakes, how long will this fornication go on? Until when will we begin pleasing God in this relationship? Truth be told, I am tired of the safe sex. It gives me no joy after we climax. Deep down my heart, I desire safe love instead – the kind that builds my self-esteem and gives me a clear conscience. I want the love that shields and keeps me from my own weaknesses, not the one that exploits my vulnerabilities and leads me on into sin. 

I can’t help crying as I write because I love you. I haven’t forgotten how good it felt in your arms, cuddling and kissing. You knew how to touch my soft spots and make me go crazy. You made me happy and you made me cry. Although I feel drawn to you, I want to serve the Lord from now with a pure heart. I can’t share my body between you and God anymore. I have been trying to do that over the years but it has brought me no joy nor peace. 

It breaks my heart to say goodbye, my Jakes, but I can’t do this anymore. I want to tell you that I have found a safer and greater love. The love of Jesus is so real. I pray you to find it too.

Truly in Christ, 
Kalex Zeeta

Credits: To LP Aida, whose song "Hi James" inspired this write up.

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Comments

  1. Unknown5 July 2020 at 11:48

    Powerful, how I wish all in such bondage will have a deep conviction like this to come out. Help us Lord and protect the vulnerable

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  2. Hermina Agyeiwaa5 July 2020 at 11:54

    Great pieces
    God bless you

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  3. Unknown5 July 2020 at 11:54

    I desired safe love
    Thanks

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  4. Enyonam 5 July 2020 at 11:58

    Hmmmm.....safe love ampa. I pray we all get this courage to turn back on the schemes of immorality. Hard though it may be, God is always there to hold us.

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    1. Kwame Gyan5 July 2020 at 12:07

      Sure! God is always there to provide strength when we choose the right path

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  5. Unknown5 July 2020 at 12:14

    The road to real love is indeed Jesus.
    Nice piece 👌

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  6. Mcjakes5 July 2020 at 13:26

    Dr. I think this is a gallant step everyone suffering from penitent must consider. And those who are dither must be able to take a stand against it. Therefore, I believe the message has ingrained well in our mine. More Grace

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  7. Anonymous5 July 2020 at 14:00

    Awww...am touched...God bless you.

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  8. Unknown5 July 2020 at 14:05

    Wow. Nice write up. The true love is from Christ Jesus

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  9. Unknown5 July 2020 at 14:07

    The mask behind 21st century dating oooh.... Hmmmm
    The so-called normal dating and true love is indeed hell

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  10. Unknown5 July 2020 at 14:07

    The mask behind 21st century dating oooh.... Hmmmm
    The so-called normal dating and true love is indeed hell

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  11. Called Worshipper5 July 2020 at 15:19

    God bless you for this piece

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  12. Called Worshipper5 July 2020 at 15:20

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  13. De-Rock5 July 2020 at 23:59

    Amen

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  14. Anonymous6 July 2020 at 00:27

    God bless you ... I have learnt a lot from this

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  15. Unknown6 July 2020 at 00:35

    Thanks very much for this piece ..am touch.God bless u

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  16. Unknown6 July 2020 at 01:01

    Woww great piece.
    How i wish all in this kind relationship will come out boldly as this. God bless you.

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    1. Kwame Gyan6 July 2020 at 02:35

      We pray God for courage to act rightly when we realize that we are swaying off the path of life.

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  17. Unknown6 July 2020 at 01:28

    Thanks a lot for this great and insightful article. God richly bless u and give you enough strength to continue this great work. 🙏🙏🙏

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  18. Unknown6 July 2020 at 02:13

    God bless you for this piece... May God help us all...

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  19. Unknown6 July 2020 at 02:24

    Wow! Nice piece. Keep touching lives dear

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  20. Unknown6 July 2020 at 03:02

    Another mind blowing piece ....the safest n real love, truly is found in christ JESUS.

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  21. Unknown6 July 2020 at 05:55

    Great write up.
    I have learned four things from this letter;
    1.To practice safe sex
    2.To use family planning methods when sexually active
    3. Not to confuse love with sex
    4. God's love is safer than that of man

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    1. Kwame Gyan6 July 2020 at 11:37

      Great! I didn't teach the first two lessons though 🙄. As long as we remain unmarried total abstinence is what God teaches us in His holy word. And it's always prudent to obey God than to follow human philosophy and ideology. Blessings!

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    2. Unknown5 May 2021 at 00:27

      There's nothing like safe sex. Sex hasn't been safe outside of it's holy boundaries. If you don't get pregnant because of condom usage, your heart will trained to be a cheat. If you don't get STDs because of condom, your body will craving for multiple sex partners even after you marry. Sex is safe in Christ's boundary of marriage.

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  22. Unknown6 July 2020 at 10:17

    Great wisdom shared here. The Lord bless you Sir 💯💯🔥❤️❤️

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    1. Kwame Gyan6 July 2020 at 11:39

      AMEN. Let's live by the the truth and for the truth.

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  23. Damata Seidu6 July 2020 at 11:20

    Woow! This is great. God richly bless you 🙏🙏🙏

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  24. Unknown6 July 2020 at 12:44

    " I desire safe love and not safe sex" this line will always be on mind to sustain me.
    God bless you dear

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  25. Unknown6 July 2020 at 12:56

    May the Lord help others who have also gotten to this point and are unable to act like this lady. #safe love

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    1. Kwame Gyan7 July 2020 at 01:50

      AMEN! May the Lord help us all stay pure and clean

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  26. Unknown6 July 2020 at 13:03

    One part that interest me the most
    That: I"can't share my body between you and christ". If we should all have this in mind always,it will go a long way to help us. God bless you for such a powerful write up.

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  27. Unknown6 July 2020 at 13:14

    Wooow!!! It's so nice and educative.God bless you guys all

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  28. Unknown6 July 2020 at 13:34

    Jesus is more than gold
    God bless you so much

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  29. Unknown6 July 2020 at 15:34

    God's love surpasses all love....nice piece

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  30. Mr. Mikkes6 July 2020 at 22:18

    God bless you.. that's a master piece. Safe love

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  31. Unknown7 July 2020 at 03:26

    Great piece dear thanks

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  32. Adonai7 July 2020 at 06:11

    This is really encouraging and a good lesson to learn. Grace abounds. Thanks Sirs for the great work. God bless you

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  33. Famous Banini7 July 2020 at 10:32

    ".....but the greatest of these is love." Thanks very much for this educative piece, Sir. Safe love, the way to go. God bless!!!

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  34. Unknown7 July 2020 at 13:20

    Wow God bless you Papa
    Hmmm it's really true ooo
    God bless you and keep u going high.

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  35. Unknown7 July 2020 at 14:17

    God bless you Dr. Kwame Gyan and your team and continue to equip you to come up with more!
    There's always something new to learn.

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  36. Crystals Electronics and Home Appliances7 July 2020 at 19:36

    This is a blessing to us all.
    God bless you and your team

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  37. Unknown9 July 2020 at 01:43

    This is so touching....I pray we also find this love in Jesus Christ and draw closer to him.

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  38. Unknown9 July 2020 at 02:03

    Wow, this is so touching and a bold step indeed

    We need safe love, not safe sex. God bless you

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  39. Unknown17 September 2020 at 07:27

    Awesome piece. There is a better love in Christ

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  40. Unknown16 April 2021 at 15:04

    The Love of God truly exceeds all other love indeed . May the Lord grant us understanding of this concept of His true love 🙏

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